THE LADIES' GUIDE TO TRUE POLITENESS AND PERFECT MANNERS;

OR,

MISS LESLIE'S BEHAVIOUR BOOK.

A GUIDE AND MANUAL FOR LADIES,

AS REGARDS THEIR

CONVERSATION; MANNERS; DRESS; INTRODUCTIONS; ENTRE TO SOCIETY; SHOPPING; CONDUCT IN THE STREET; AT PLACES OF AMUSEMENT; IN TRAVELING; AT THE TABLE, EITHER AT HOME, IN COMPANY, OR AT HOTELS; DEPORTMENT IN GENTLEMEN'S SOCIETY; LIPS; COMPLEXION; TEETH; HANDS; THE HAIR; ETC., ETC.

WITH FULL INSTRUCTIONS AND ADVICE IN

LETTER WRITING; RECEIVING PRESENTS; INCORRECT WORDS; BORROWING; OBLIGATIONS TO GENTLEMEN; OFFENCES; CHILDREN; DECORUM IN CHURCH; AT EVENING PARTIES; AND SUGGESTIONS IN BAD PRACTICES AND HABITS EASILY CONTRACTED, WHICH NO YOUNG LADY SHOULD BE GUILTY OF, ETC., ETC.

BY MISS LESLIE.

AUTHOR OF "MISS LESLIE'S CELEBRATED NEW COOKERY BOOK," "MISS LESLIE'S NEW RECEIPTS FOR COOKING," ETC.

Philadelphia:
T. B. PETERSON & BROTHERS,
306 CHESTNUT STREET.

PREFACE.

It is said that soon after the publication of Nicholas Nickleby, not fewer than six Yorkshire schoolmasters (or rather six principals of Yorkshire institutes) took journeys to London, with the express purpose of prosecuting Dickens for libels—"each one and severally" considering himself shown up to the world as Mr. Squeers of Dotheboys Hall.

Now, if Dickens had drawn as graphic a picture of Dothegirls Hall, we firmly believe that none of the lady principals of similar institutes would have committed themselves by evincing so little tact, and adopting such impolitic proceedings. They would wisely have held back from all appropriation of the obnoxious character, and passed it over unnoticed; as if it could not possibly have the slightest reference to them.

Therefore we wish that those of our fair readers whom certain hints in the following pages may awaken to the consciousness of a few habitual misbehavements, (of which they were not previously aware,) should pause, and reflect, before they allow themselves to "take umbrage too much." Let them keep in mind that the purpose of the writer is to amend, and not to offend; to improve her young countrywomen, and not to annoy them. It is with this view only that she has been induced to "set down in a note-book" such lapses from les bienséances as she has remarked during a long course of observation, and on a very diversified field.

She trusts that her readers will peruse this book in as friendly a spirit as it was written.

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